Items I have received or found that may be inspiring in
some way.
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a
battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the
battle is between two 'wolves' inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow,
regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment
inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope,
serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy,
generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about the situation for a minute...
He then asked his grandfather,
"Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied,
"The one you feed."
-Source unknown
If you find yourself in a hole. Stop digging.
If you're riding' ahead of
the herd, take a look back every now and then to make
sure it's still there
Lettin' the cat outta the
bag is a whole lot easier'n puttin' it back.
PRICELESS Gifts to give for FREE
1. The gift of listening...
Try giving this to someone in need. And you must
really listen. No
interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your
responses. Just listen
2. The gift of signs of affection...
Be generous with your hugs, kisses and gentle squeezes
of the hand. Let these
tiny actions demonstrate the love inside of you.
3. The gift of a note...
It can be as simple as "I Love You" or as creative as a
sonnet. Put your
notes where they will surprise your loved ones.
4. The gift of laughter...
Just cut out a cartoon, save a clever article.
Your gift will say, "I love to
laugh with you."
5. The gift of compliment...
A simple "You look good in blue" or "Good supper" can be
of greatest value to
those who may feel they are being taken for granted.
6. The gift of a favor...
Help with the dishes, run an errand, etc.
7. The gift of leaving alone...
There are times in our lives when we want nothing better
than to be left
alone. Become more sensitive to those times and
give solitude.
8. The gift of a cheerful disposition...
Try to be cheerful around those you love.
9. The gift of a game...
Offer to play your loved one's favorite game. Even
if you lose, you'll be a
winner.
10. The gift of prayer...
Pray for your loved ones and let them know you pray for
them.
> One day a
farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried
> piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure
out what to do. Finally
> he decided the animal was old and the well needed
to be covered up anyway,
> it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey. He
invited all his
> neighbors to come over and help him. They all
grabbed a shovel and began
> to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey
realized what was
> happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's
amazement, he quieted
> down. A few shovel loads
> later, the farmer finally looked down the well and
was astonished at what
> he saw. With every shovel of dirt that hit his
back, the donkey was doing
> something amazing. He would shake it off and take a
step up. As the
> farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top
of the animal, he would
> shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon,
everyone was amazed as the
> donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and
trotted off!
>
> Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of
dirt. The trick to
> getting out of the well is to shake it off and take
a step up. Each of our
> troubles is a stepping stone. We can get out of the
deepest wells just by
> not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and
take a step up!
A Special Day
A friend of mine opened his
wife's underwear drawer and picked up a
silk paper wrapped package:
"This, - he said - isn't any ordinary package."
He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk
paper and the box.
"She got this the first time we went to New
York, 8 or 9 years ago.
She has never put it on. Was saving it for a
special occasion.
Well, I guess this is it. He got near the bed
and placed the gift
box next to the other clothing he was taking to
the funeral house, his
wife had just died. He turned to me and said:
"Never save something for a special occasion.
Every day in your life
is a special occasion".
I still think those words changed my life.
Now I read more and clean less.
I sit on the porch without worrying about
anything.
I spend more time with my family, and less at
work.
I understood that life should be a source of
experience to be lived
up to, not survived through. I no longer keep
anything. I use crystal
glasses every day. I'll wear new clothes to go
to the supermarket, if I
feel like it.
I don't save my special perfume for special
occasions, I use it
whenever I want to. The words "Someday..." and
"One Day..." are fading
away from my dictionary. If it's worth seeing,
listening or doing, I want
to see, listen or do it now. I don't know what
my friend's wife would have
done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next
morning, this nobody can
tell. I think she might have called her
relatives and closest friends.
She might call old friends to make peace over
past quarrels. I'd
like to think she would go out for Chinese, her
favorite food. It's these
small things that I would regret not doing, if I
knew my time had come.
I would regret it, because I would no longer see
the friends I would
meet, letters... letters that I wanted to write
"One of this days".
I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't
say to my brothers and
sons, not times enough at least, how much I love
them.
Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep
anything that could bring
laughter and joy into our lives.
And, on each morning, I say to myself that this
could be a special day.
Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.
If you got this, it's because someone cares for
you and because,
probably, there's someone you care about.
If you're too busy to send this out to other
people and you say to
yourself that you will send it "One of these
days", remember that "One
day" is far away... or might never come...
I am thankful for.....
The spouse who hogs the covers every night, because
he/she is not out with someone else.
The teenager who is not doing dishes but is
watching TV, because that means he/she is at home and
not on the streets.
For the taxes that I pay, because it means that I
am employed.
For the mess to clean after a party, because it
means that I have been surrounded by friends.
For the clothes that fit a little too snug,
because it means I have
enough to eat.
For my shadow that watches me work, because it
means I am out in the sunshine.
For a lawn that needs mowing, windows that need
cleaning, and gutters that need fixing, because it means
I have a home.
For all the complaining I hear about the government,
because it means that we have freedom of speech.
For the parking spot I find at the far end of the
parking lot, because it means I am capable of walking
and that I have been blessed with transportation.
For my huge heating bill, because it means I am
warm.
For the lady behind me in church that sings off key,
because it means that I can hear.
For the pile of laundry and ironing, because it
means I have clothes
to wear.
For weariness and aching muscles at the end of the
day, because it
means I have been capable of working hard.
For the alarm that goes of in the early morning
hours, because it means that I am alive.